Before and after. Photo by Beao from Wikimedia Commons
If your partner had body hair you didn't like would you ask them to wax or shave it off? Lots of men seem to expect women to be hairless. Should they be expected to do the "back, sack and crack" for their partners?
Each to their own but I think that a man is able to make that decision themselves. I'd dislike a man telling me to look a certain way or change my appearance for them so it goes both ways. That said I find that I'm not overly attracted to really 'hairy' men so I've not personally had to deal with it.
If my partner expected me to be 'hairless', as you say, then I would ask him to wax his hair too, if only to afford him the opportunity to appreciate the time and effort required to conform to the ridiculous body image standards set for us by contemporary culture.