I have had problems myself,and I feel for parents today.
Having also heard from parents, who are most confused.
I started my eldest at school 31 years ago.
My youngest just left high school 3 years ago, so I have had a LOT of experience..
I had to use Public schools, and in the end it worked out 70%good....30% bad.So they had to change a few times.
Money always played a huge part, and even then one was not sure if you could get that place in the private school.
Marks had to be high, and so did your wallet.That left a really bad taste with me.
It would seem the child need to be such a high achiever, and I am not that kind of parent to push push push!!
I have never believed in that kind of pressure for any child.
So here is as simple as it gets, info:
I would have a look on Google maps for schools that are public in your area.
I would look at private, also.
Write all details on a bit of paper...to keep track...Also look at what you REALLY can afford, if looking for private.
There are many issues, and you also need to take into consideration the sensitive problems in your area. e.g. is it a certain ethnic area.
It can and will impact in some way, because your child could be just one of a few that go's to that school....(if non Muslim).
Children are not like adults, they do 'single-out' other children who are not the same.
There are a couple of schools near me, where all the little girls wear in a public school white head coverings.....so if your child is not of that faith....it may be difficult for them.(Plus sometimes we should be sensitive to that culture) its all about giving & taking.
Sure! it's a public school anyone can go....but when we have a great number of one culture, we sometimes have to look see the other side of the coin.
It's not something that can be rushed,but it's also not so simple.I have had to learn the hard way, and we had 'issues' with this-n-that....I had to keep talking to teachers, other parents.
One of my sons had problems that never seemed to get fixed, until I moved him...So lots of common sense with your area, and child..
All the very best, and just make sure you know what your child thinks, and how they are doing in school.Keep in good contact with the school, you choose...before a problem may arise.