At nearly 60....you can see I have had experience with this, and still do.
To be totally honest with you, from the heart.
Take every day as it comes....but ALL women are different. Please remember that.
What we wish to have happen, is not the case.
If you experience things you do not like, read books...get info from women in health care.
Do not suffer, from trying to be all natural.....It is very different from pms.
Read as much as you can, and if it becomes too hard, please seek help.
Menopause is something some women sail thru, others do it with difficulty.
Just remember there is no one way, and it is your time to look after yourself, All the very best :)