No, but attend them regularly at a Military Club, of which I'm a 'Senior' Member (35 yrs or more continuous M'ship').
It's always a delightful way to chat with other like-minded Ladies', & catch-up with a few friends' as well.
The food is always scrumptiously fresh, with hot tea or coffee.
Personally, had friends' to Dinner, at home. Loved doing that, & many a good night was had by all at our place!
I'd start trawling through my much loved Recipe Books at a month out, & go from there.
We always tried to have guests with a common interest, that way conversation flowed well.
Ah, those were the days! Sadly, long gone, & not to be repeated.