I loved my mother very much, but when I was 21 .... I met my first husband.
We married a year later.I wanted to leave home, and have a life.
Now, young people can't afford to move out, and in Italy young men are staying home till mid thirties!!!! because mama cooks, cleans, and just does everything for them.Even other countries are finding this, and my last son is still home.
He will be 22 this year, and he has no intention of leaving home.
My mother moved once into a caravan on my land when I was married the first time, never upset my husband....but drove me crazy.