I have three tattoos. My first was an Anhk on my lower back and represents Divine Love and connection to Divinity. The second was a butterfly in ivy on my lower tummy - this represents transformation and is a totem in my life. I feel that I go through many transformative cycles as the butterfly teaches us. My third tattoo is one my left shoulder/upper back. It is a humming bird and cherry blossoms. I love this one as I drew it myself and took it to the artist to have it done. The humming bird is deeply symbolic for me as it represents the purity of love, joy and how easily we can frighten away beauty if we do not take time to see the delicacy of it. The cherry blossoms represent the feminine spirit and my ability to embrace that in myself.
I know that tattoos are not for everyone and I used to consider it to be a defacing of a person's body before I came to realise the deep sacredness of such a ritual can have for an individual. I'm not saying that every person who gets a tattoo comes at it from this perspective, but I certainly did.
The pain was a way of moving through a cycle and learning about my ability to tolerate such changes. Every time I see my tattoos, I am reminded of the sacred in the world and inside me.
Personally, I don't care for the ear implants and stretchers. I think it's personal choice what people do and it is my hope that they go into the experience doing their best to project forward and risk manage any of the potential fallout.
I have had my nose pierced a long time ago. I loved it at the time, but then it got infected (yes, ha ha - I know) and my dog bumped my nose which made me bleed and I almost passed out from the blood. After that experience, I realised that I wasn't that into nose piercing and let it go.
I think we all have to live and learn and then move on from our choices putting our new found wisdom into application.