I guess it depends on what you consider to be pampering. I get a manicure and a pedicure done every couple of months but I don't go to a spa for that. They are very over priced. My daughter got me a voucher for one at a spa, bless her heart, and it was the worst manicure I have ever had. My daughter also got me a voucher for a massage, so I must go get that done. I don't have a favourite place. I go to whatever place the gift voucher comes from, as that's the only way I could afford it. When we go cruising, I live at the day spa. It is very affordable. To go on a cruise, it should be a pampering experience, as it is not something you do often. On our first cruise we got a couples massage ( amongst other things ) included in our package. It was lovely. I don't mind a nice massage.
I have never been to one, I have lived most of my life around the poverty line and a day at a spa, is a huge luxury I could never afford. I would love to go to one. I have never had a manicure, or pedicure, facial or anything like that. May be someday it will be something for me to wish for.