I don't dance now.
I stopped 15 years ago, after seeing how some people do go over the top.
I told myself, I never wanted to look like that.
Not sure if it is rude? but I will never dance in public....that's just me.
If you're aware of those that go 'over the top', surely you wouldn't LOL. I know what you mean, but, for me, dancing is too much fun to give up.