Not really.
My Mother did all the looking after me, and my Father came home now and then....I did not see much of my Father at all, but the war had ended 9 years and most of the men, who went to war never came back the same.
I never resented my Father, I knew from a young age....he was not well, and so when he was around I just loved him very much.
My Mother was understanding also, we made the best of a sad situation.