It varies, but in general he cooks, mows and looks after the car and I clean and do the washing. The kids are too young to be much help yet.We're both happy with the arrangement but I sometimes get a bit of schtick from other people about how I should be doing it all because "he works." Actually I work too, I just don't get paid for it. My job at the moment is caring for our children. Any housework I also get done during the day is a bonus. No-one expects my husband to vacuum his office.
It's definitely not equal, but we do share some chores at home. The reason is because my partner works long hours and his work is more stressful than mine, so I would do most of the cleaning, laundry, and cooking while he helps with garbage disposal, mowing the lawn, diy repair and maintenance. On a good day, he will do the dishes. I thinks there's alot of give and take. Each couple might have different scenarios.