I can't say too much but even though we were no longer the most in-love couple........
the damage it did was very very bad......I should just have just stayed, and some how to work on it, at least till my two boys at the time were much much older.
I live with that guilt every single day for the last 27 years.
I regret too things equally: A break and enter I committed when I was 15 - it hurt two of the most important people in my life, and not going to the hospital sooner when I was sick a couple of years ago.
In an ideal world we should live with no regrets.
This is reality and my biggest mistake was hurting my last partner , this resulted in an instant break up
No discussion just OVER which is fair enough due to the circumstances.
Knowing he will not forgive or forget this day is very sad thought
No regrets, I believe that we all do our best with the knowledge, wisdom and understanding we hand at the time. I have no ability to impact the past so looking back and wishing for different is not a good use of my time. I can take the lessons from the experience and apply my wisdom to the here and now to create a better future. Woulda, coulda, shoulda are mantras that I let go of a long time ago.