I normally use shampoo and conditioner (separately). I also dye my hair to cover the grey. I usually let it dry naturally, but if I need to straighten it for an event, then I use a hair dryer. I also use mousse and hairspray for styling purposes.
I have my hair done every Saturday at my local hairdressers a d have done so for the past 35+ years with the same salon. I do have it coloured from time to time, half head or full head of foils, have had pink foils (once) and purple foils and perms. It's shampooed, conditioned and set every week on rollers and dried under a dryer. I have very fine hair but a lot of it so prefer to have it looked after by professionals