I don't love the Idea of Polygamy. I believe that one man was meant for one woman.There has to be a lot of compromise made on so many issues in this complex relationship. I don't think I would want to share myself like that.
Would my husband let me is the real question! LOL. Honestly, I don't know. Trying to make one relationship work is tough, let alone carrying out several at once. From the perspective of my faith and of own personal experience, I would have to say no to it. But, and this is a big but, there are some who seem to be happy with their polygamous relations.
I have a friend who grew up in a polygamist family. She seems more normal, confident, well-rounded then most people I know. I have no idea if she of her relationship status, it's just never come up - we both participate in the same writers group, so the topic really never strays away from that - but it wouldn't really matter to me either way. Personally, I couldn't imagine being with another woman, even if my wife was accepting and promoting the idea. I just don't think I could do it. Nor could I accept her with another man, no matter who that man was. It's just not for me.
I think it works rather well for some men …. and that's about it. I don't think it should be illegal because as we see in the US when it's illegal it just goes underground and becomes some crazy human trafficking, child bride disaster, but I also don't think it should be legal with no strings.