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I found out that my coworker has begun dating my cousin, but he's still living with his girlfriend. What should I do?

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I found out that my coworker has begun dating my cousin, but he's still living with his girlfriend. I know her pretty well and she doesn't know of his new relationship. What should I do?

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He's a rat and shouldn't get away with that I'd be confronting him and saying "you tell her or I will". Feel sorry for both girls!
First confront your co-worker, and tell him to be straight with your cousin, or you'll tell her that he has a girlfriend.
Ok, well put yourself in that persons shoes.
If you were her, what would you want someone to do if they knew.
Then that's your answer.

I know what I would do, but we all see life in a different view.
I will tell you on the whole, a lot of people would stand clear of this.
Leave well alone....But you have to ask yourself, are you a person who
would want to be told?...or....just not want to know.
It depends on whether you think what he is doing is wrong and whether you want to be the person who potentially has to break bad news.... personally I would not be able to look the other way and pretend I didn't know. I also know that if it was me and I found out afterwards that my cousin had known and hadn't told me I would be devastated. That would seem more of a betrayal than being cheated on!
So, I would have a conversation with my co-worker, making it very clear that I was extremely uncomfortable being in the position he had put me in. I would give him a deadline to have sorted it out by - up to him which girlfriend he chooses, but he clearly needs to make a choice. If he hadn't be the deadline, then I would tell my cousin. I would also tell my boss, so that if there are any implications at work, it would be clear that none of it was my fault.
I'm with Sandy. I would confront the cousin and give him an ultimatum. That's terrible. I feel for the girls. I would want to know, and feel that they should be told - the sooner, the better.
by Vee
Confront him about his actions when in a public place or send him an email and advise him he has to clear the issue up within 24 hrs or you will.
Did you know that cheating is the main cause of murder. no wonder it ranks 2nd in the list of sins is the 2nd commandment in the Bible.
Confront him about his actions when in a public place or send him an email and advise him he has to clear the issue up within 24 hrs or you will.
Did you know that cheating is the main cause of murder. No wonder it ranks 2nd in the list of sins is the subject of 2nd commandment in the Bible.
Front your cousin, explain the situation(in case he doesn't know). Tell him that you have no intention of lying or covering anything up (for him or anyone else). Tell him that you are very annoyed that you are in the position that you are in because his partner could run into you at any moment and compromise your "non-lying" status. Ask him how many hours it will take for him to rectify the situation. Be careful that he doesn't actually WANT you to tell on him - sort of like a slightly easier let down for his partner.........people can be really queer about breaking up relationships etc., including being downright cruel. He is a jerk
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