He was great through the first two pregnancies, used to get me things in the middle of the night and go to all the obs appointments. I think by number 3 he was a bit over it, but then again so was I (like I really didn't need him to take time off work by baby number 3 to come to every appointment with the midwife). He was good with taking care of the older ones so I could sleep, so that made up for it!
My husband was brilliant. I didn't need any help during pregnancy even though I worked full time up til 2 weeks prior to birth, but I wasn't unwell at all apart from first 3 months of morning sickness, which he could not help with anyway.
He wasn't present at the birth, and I preferred to concentrate on the job at hand, without having to ask after his well being or feelings. He stayed at home and when baby and I arrived home - the house was absolutely spotless. He had made 2 weeks of meals and put them in the freezer, had done all the shopping to take us up to 2 weeks. So when baby & I arrived home the 3 of us spent an uninterrupted 2 weeks of bonding and getting things in order. I thought his taking 2 weeks off work was unnecessary, but it was nevertheless very enjoyable. I thanked him for his good, practical thinking.