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I know this may sound like a crude question, so apologies if its posting causes any offence. I once watched ‘My Penis and I’, a documentary about the filmmaker, Lawrence Barraclough, his small penis and the effects it has had on his life.

From the onset of the film, it is clear that Lawrence is adversely affected by the size of this penis, but I would like to think that size doesn’t – or at least, shouldn’t - matter.



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However, speaking to others, I now see how the size of one’s penis could potentially be a problem when it comes to self-esteem and sexual confidence, especially in a world where pornography (not including small penis porn) sets ridiculous and unrealistic expectations about the size a man’s penis 'should' be.

Does size really matter and can women be any kind of authority on this matter?


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Being a guy, I can't really comment from the "consumer's" perspective on this, but I guess it might matter if all you were interested in was a one night stand. In my case, my wife and I were both virgins when we married, so we have nothing to compare to and no desire to find out, because we're happy "in our ignorance".

I would hazard a guess that any relationship which relies on penis size as a deal breaker is doomed to eventual failure anyway, because we don't spend 24 hrs a day humping (unless you're employed in on of the oldest biblically recorded professions!). If size is that important to a person, I would recommend that they NEVER cite wedding vows at the alter, and would be better off staying single, because they will soon find out that marriage and/or lifelong unions have so much more to do with pretty much everything but sex, with sex for pleasure just being the icing on the cake.

Conversely, if sex is the only or main reason for a relationship, I'd say size is probably quite important, as might be the number of people you can have it with (to avoid boredom perhaps?).

Personally, I prefer the stability and happiness of family life with my best friend and wife, and I'm quite happy that she doesn't know what sex is like with someone bigger or smaller than me. I aim to keep it so she never has a valid reason to find out.
by kimp
Thanks for sharing parks. Some valid points indeed. Totally agreed.
by Vee
Size matters to some and not to others I would think.

I had a friend who oversize was a "huge" problem so it can work both ways as well.
by Finy
I don't think size really matters. If it's large - lucky you. If it's too small then just roll over and "think of Mother England". However, I also think that Finy is going to be inundated for the phone number/address of her afflicted friend.
by fran.
LOL -it was actually not MY friend but a friend of a friend and it was some 35 years ago!
by Finy
In my experience size makes absolutely no difference. I think most women will say they rate technique and skill above appearance. A workman is only as good as his tools, no? If you've got a hammer, but don't know where to hit the nail then what's the point? Small and powerful, or big and powerful, it makes no difference to me.
Your analogy is very, very clever!
by Vee
In my experience size makes absolutely no difference. I think most women will say they rate technique and skill above appearance. A workman is only as good as his tools, no? If you've got a hammer, but don't know where to hit the nail then what's the point? Small and powerful, or big and powerful, it makes no difference to me.
Size doesn't matter in terms of value of manhood, but in terms of attraction, some people might be more sexually attractive to a particular size, just in the same way someone might be attracted to a particular facial shape, eye or hair colour.
'size doesn't matter' is a myth perpetrated by men with tiny appendages. It depends on the woman whether she's happy or not. Personally, it does matter and wonder if women can be happy with a small penis. I think women can be authorities on this matter unless they were virgins when they got married.
I think you may be right. I once saw an adult's penis as long as my pinkie finger when erect. But then again, I suppose length isn't all there is. Girth should count for something too. In any case, who was it that said, 'it doesn't matter how big it is, it's what you can do with it that counts'?
by Vee
it does when you cannot find your size on the rack.
I think skill and technique are more important. However, having said that, large is great if accompanied by skill!
Sure does!
Try putting a small blood-pressure cuff on a muscular upper arm.
You won't get the figures' you're after.
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