If it is somewgere like McCafe,where the prices are so much lower,NO! But if I am paying a higher price,then I expect table service as this is whole point of me going to such a place!!! Prett simple really! If I have to 'serve myself' I may as well do so at home and save a lot of m now very limited income!
No, it doesn't bother me at all, if it did I wouldn't use that sort of café!
The only times it can be a bit difficult is if I am on my own with my son and have lots of shopping bags, then trying to get him to stay in one place with the bags, keep an eye on him and order food etc OR keep everything with me then trying to carry the food and the bags to a table.... that can be tricky. But it only happens once in a blue moon so it's not really a bother.
No. I find a lot of places that supposedly offer table service don't really have enough staff on to do that properly so you can sit there for ages waiting for them to come and take your order. I'd rather just order at the counter and know that someone's making my food than sit at a table waiting or someone to notice me.