I believe he universe has a way of dealing its own revenge, in other words I believe in karma. If someone does me wrong, I know I've become a stronger, better person because of that wrong and how I dealt with it. I don't need to exact revenge for that.
I don't know if I have carried out any acts of "revenge" that were big time but....holding a grudge is something I have always excelled at. I don't know anyone that can hold a grudge for as long as I can. A lot of times "holding a grudge" is more damaging to the grudge holder (so I am told). For people that have "wronged" me in my life, particularly at work, I get great delight in accidentally running into them and informing them that I have heard about their misfortune and that it must be Karma for their acts of unkindness in the past. Now in those situations, I don't know if that is actually revenge, the act of an opportunist or just educating/reminding people that their ways were not honourable and now they have to accept their fate.
Is that revenge ? If it is, then revenge is sweet.
Would like to say no and I think generally this is the case, however small things like always being the one to make contact with someone after awhile becomes annoying and I would just leave things and see whether they bother to contact me again..if not ...I move on, believe relationships should be pretty equal......mostly I can't hold a grudge for long over anything, just get on with my life.
No,I believe that Revenge has a way of creating more of the same,whether on a personal level or in a global situation. I have always felt that if I treat others as I wish to be treated ,then hoopefully,I shall reap the reward of nice behaviour from others. I have been in situations where horrid things have been done to me,and I have JUST MOVED ON. I get NO joy at all from being mean or nasty.What goes round,comes back round,so why act in a bad way to begin with? I believe it is known as Karma,and it is the basis of many cultures. Though in the beginning it was alwayys such a positive aspect of their way of life,some of these cultures often seem to get off onto a bad footing so their 'revenge' seems to continue in a never-ending cycle.
But as for just little old me,NO I am not vengeful at all.