No I think I am a poor judge of character as I picked a best friend and a partner of 18 years as my friends and they took off together -so I think I am neither good at judging characters of men or women!
If I were, perhaps I would be with my first husband.
Sometimes I guess I am right but obviously in the important ones, I am not a good judge.
I think that I get a gut reaction, but then I see how a persons nature reveals itself. My gut reaction is often pretty good, but over time I have been wrong many times. Sometimes I can get a bad sense about someone for no reason, and this has normally been pretty accurate.
Always go with my gut feeling and am never disappointed in my decision. Also judge (if that is a good word) people that I have not met i.e. been told about before I meet them and my opinion is usually right in those cases, sometimes even better. I am often surprised to see how my perception of what someone looks like is often proven to be way off correct when I meet them. But with regard to their character, I am rarely wrong.